Another thing I really don't blog much about is being a step mom. (because that is what we call me, here).
I don't blog about it because, to be honest with you, it doesn't really create much blog fodder. I am very lucky in my karmic draw of step daughters. She is easy to get along with, she likes our little family, and her mom doesn't cause any particular drama in OUR lives. What she does with her own life is her own business, and we keep our families as separate as we can, and it works for us.
Anyhow.
Yeah. Step mom. Sometimes I find myself doing things with MG that just make me giggle on the inside. Like prom dress shopping, or homework checking. Even better?
Back to School night.
Oh, yeah...
I think I blogged about this two years ago when she was a freshman. I was working last year, and missed the joy of back to school night.
Last night, however, I went again. It was interesting. To recap, somewhat...
the way they manage it at our local high school is to have us go to the classes our child goes to on a daily basis. We only get 10 minutes per teacher, though, with ten minutes between each class to find the next one we are going to. I have MG go with me, otherwise I'd never find my way. This doesn't give much time for any parent to actually speak with the teachers, but it does give a feel for what the class is like, and what the expectations are, and, also, how each teacher prefers to be communicated with. They all seem to like email. I love that.
The teachers I most liked last night were her English and History teachers. Oh, the Biology teacher was good, too. The English teacher calls his class "American Literature", and he has a VERY ambitious reading list for them this year. They are reading "The Crucible" right now, and they are going to read "The Scarlet Letter", "Catcher in the Rye", "One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest", "The Great Gatsby", and a few others. They have some great reading ahead of them. Its a good thing she likes to read.
Her Spanish teacher nearly put me to sleep. It seems to me that foreign language learning is very hit or miss. He is very old school, very set in his ways, and lordy, I am glad I am not in that class.
Thankfully, she is loving high school, and does well with her classes. She is a junior now, and is turning Sixteen a week from today. This weekend we are having her birthday party...
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I know you're gonna blog about the party, and then post pictures after...
You are so blessed not to have all the drama that goes with being a step. My son has two step sons. They were two and four when he married their mother. The youngest tunrned 15 today and is a great young man, but his older brother is 17 and has caused nothing but drama. I still love them like they are my own grandkids. Hopefully it is just that age.
Happy Birthday to you step daughter. I can't wait to see pictures, too.
Ah sweet 16 ..
I have two adult step daughters who are fabulous women .. they were a little younger than MG when I married their dad .... but we all are great friends now.......
As you know, I didn't have a great French teacher. I'm sorry.
I'm excited about vicariously living through her English class, though :)
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